The Pakistani Spectator

Girls live in fantasy, whereever they are. They make ideal in their imagination and then spend their lives searching for that ideal. Father is the first male in their life and they become attached to him and then they become dotty upon their brothers. Then naturally they start dreaming about the prince of their dreams.

Then it all depends upon the atmosphere of their home. If the environment of home doesn’t provide the girls with trust, love, care, tenderness, safety and serenity then they become very vulnerable to the stalkers, cajolers, liars, deceivers and swines. Girls are very gulliable creatures. They are blind when they are exposed to love, even a false love.

The running away of girls from home with the boys is a common occurance in our society. 99% of the time it ends tragically. Either the girl end up in some brothel or is raped and killed or is just raped by multiple people before she is thrown back to wher she belongs. She then becomes a pariah and disease for the whole family. Fathers, brothers and other relatives consider her a stigma.

More often than not she commits suicide.