What is confidence?Lacking confidence?
By The Pakistani Spectator • Jun 21st, 2007 • Category: Uncategorized • 7 CommentsConfidence is the feeling in one’s heart which makes him aware that he is capable of passing every obstacle and can perform every impossible task. In other words a confident person might say “nothing is impossible as the word impossible itself means I M
Possible”. Confidence to a child is like a sweet which he thinks as his’s treasure. Confidence to a man is the path to victory. To a woman it is a weapon which protects her and to an old one confidence is the hope to live.
If we snatch away one’s confidence he is left with a depressed soul; His heart feels as if it is just a piece of rotten flesh; His brain is all the time surrounded with the locked fence of anxiety and regret ness which makes it unfeasible for it to think of anything but of whether he is strong enough or whether he is ready or if he can do this or do that. Even when meeting people with smiling faces it feels to him that they are up to something or are currently plotting against him. He feels trembling from inside. He all the time looks at himself to see if he looks dim and unintelligent in front of others. He……….he all the time feels that others are superior and smarter than him. Even if he does something appreciable and others realize it, he moulds the circumstances and assumes that it’s just an ordinary task he did and the people wanting to be courteous are appreciating his efforts .His eyes are moving to and fro to catch the sight of people looking, observing or anyone mentioning his name (even if for good) which makes him feel shy instead of proud. This feeling of lack of confidence stays with him always like a night mare recently scene and forces him to hide himself under blanket from the curious people out in the world.
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True… Confidence is the real strength. Its the energy to live life fully.
What measures one should adopt to gain confidence, in your respected opinion?
Yeah, spot on.
well firstly he should think himself great and superior than others.Secondly he should not compare himself with others and try to be just himself.
Fatima
Plz guide as i may be given a chance to work which i know how it is done, but never been involved in that in my job carrier. Because it is a very senior position. I have confidence in my self, but don’t want to let him down who is offering me such a big post.
what do you suggest me.
regards
Ummmm !!!thats a difficult one but i think that you know yourself better than anyone else .You have a really precious thing CONFIDENCE that most of us dont have.If you think you have the determination to work hard and can accept the change in ur environment ,then i think it will not be dificult for you to perform it even if u have not done this kind of work previously.But do ask yourself and think abt it and the solution lies there .
Thanks Fatima
I have commitment do perform, and one thing which is important. Success supports me in almost every matter in try to involve myself, This is by the grace of Almighty.
I am nothing greater than a err.