“Inappropriate Response To Flattery” - On this I better don’t say nothing to avoid bruising ego of “that” someone with Extremely Fragile Ego!!!!!!!!!

Thanks in advance

Naeem Bhai, you are generous and it is good. I also wish to support the new president, since he is product of our own democratic system. However, I have a question. Does Zardari’s personal tragedidies and tribulation amputate his past guilt from his person, by the way same question holds for other actors including Sharifs? I prefer them all to publically repent and beg for public pardon, only then they can close the books….

An “inferiority complex”, or extremely low self esteem, is a concept we are all familiar with. Chances are you, or someone you know, suffers from this complex. Those with low self esteem are more likely to be depressed, irritable, or aggressive. They may also be more likely to have feelings of resentment, alienation, and unhappiness. So what are the signs that you may have an inferiority complex? Here are the top 7:
Sensitivity To Criticism: Although people who feel inferior “know” they have shortcomings, they do not like other people to point this out. They tend to perceive any form of criticism, regardless of how sensitively or constructively it is presented, as a personal attack.

Hypercritical Attitude: People who do not feel good about themselves have trouble feeling good about anyone else. They look hard for flaws and shortcomings of others to try to convince themselves that they really aren’t so bad after all. These people cannot feel intelligent, attractive, competent, etc., unless they are the most intelligent, attractive and competent person around.

Inappropriate Response To Flattery: This can work two ways. Some people are desperate to hear anything good about themselves and will be constantly fishing for compliments. Others may refuse to listen to anything positive about themselves because it is inconsistent with their own feelings.

Tendency Toward Blaming: Some people project their perceived weaknesses onto others in order to lessen the pain of feeling inferior. From here, it is only a short step to blaming others for one’s failures.

Feelings Of Persecution: Carried to its extreme, blaming others can extend to believing that others are actively seeking to ruin you. If a man is fired from his job, for example, it may comfort him to believe that his boss was out to get him. It allows him to avoid personal responsibility for his failure.

Negative Feelings About Competition: People who feel inferior like to win games and contests every bit as anyone else, but they tend to avoid such situations because deep down, they believe they cannot win. And not coming in first is clear evidence of total failure.

Tendency Toward Seclusiveness And Timidity: Because people with an inferiority complex believe that they are not as interesting or intelligent as others, they believe that other people will feel the same way about them. So they tend to avoid social situations, and when they are forced to be with others, they will avoid speaking up because they believe doing so will only provide an embarrassing demonstration of their dullness and stupidity.
Don’t Worry! If you have most or all of these traits, it does not mean you are destined to a life of misery and self-doubt! Many people tend to gradually become easier on themselves as they grow older, after they learn from experience that they aren’t so bad after all. You can help this process along by making a conscious effort to pat yourself on the back for the things you do well. Remember, you don’t have to come in first to be proud of your efforts!

This nation only knows how an Authoritarian or a dictator as their sole supreme commander may rule them. After the election of Asif Ali Zardari as a new President this nation is rightly or wrongly; pinning lots of hope to a person who is suppose to be a neutral body, void of any powers or having a say in the policy making of country. Although presently 17th Amendment of the constitution and the section 58(2)B as a gift from Ex-President Pervez Musharraf are still in tact which makes the President a supreme executive in Pakistan and any President with these powers may very conveniently enjoy singing ‘You are the Wind beneath My wings’, but what happens (as being widely debated) when the wind of these two items is taken away from under his wings.

In view of the pinning of our hopes and wheeling dealing being exercised with USA with one single person; Asif Ali Zardari; it looks like that title of the existing powers may change but supreme commander will remain; President Asif Ali Zardari.

We may also experience some ‘phoon phaan’ being aired from Muslim League Nawaz camps (would be a opposition party in Parliament) but history tells us that we do listen to lot of rhetoric raising the flow of adrenalin down the blood vessels and spine but Punjab is only good in submitting to the will of their supreme commander. We have seen how they have been bulldozed to the ditch of looser by Zardai; both the Muslim Leagues; N as well Q. They are the excellent…King Makers.

Sep 7:The government of Sindh has withdrawn a notification of holiday on Monday after newly elected President Asif Ali Zardari took strict notice of it.

Earlier, the President elect, Asif Ali Zardari took strict note of the decision by Sindh government to declare public holiday on Monday.

According to Geo News, Zardari has said that the country needs education and hard work under prevailing circumstances and not holidays.

Talal sahib! Lets give some grace months to Mr. AZ. As an optimist, I will not criticize AZ before seeing his performance. I also believe, humans undergo transformation of their personality sometimes. Since he has faced extra-ordinary circumstances since 1997, culminating in death of her wife, such jolts are enough to disrupt the in-built programming (computer language) of a soul.
In so far as his alleged corruption is concerned, you know he has already got punishment in shape of imprisonment of eight years. Its almost equal to life-imprisonment (which is awarded in case of murder charges) as jail manual counts day and night (24 hours) as two days.
What I think, he can use his skills for securing interests of Pakistan. Who can deny his is really a talented man. Look at his past. Is not he a “wardaatia”…?
Now lets hope after accumulating heaps of wealth, he wont need more. And he may (rather he should) use his acumen for furtherance of the country’s long term interests.
We may like or dislike him, but it is a reality he has not bagged this post with help of Brigade 111 but through a legitimate democratic process. Unlike his predecessors, he does not lack legitimacy so he has perfect timings to play a tactful role for reformation of foreign policy. He can.

Thanks. You are very right that there should be unbiased debate in Assembly as well as among intellectuals of this country. We should decide now after 61 years that what kind of government we need to run the country and what should be the check and balances. Unfortunately we are still in vicious cycle of this 58-2B or 17th Constitutional Amendment. There is a constant war between Assemblies and President office on this 58-2B article since 1980’s. Every time People’s of Pakistan got effected, and still this sword is here.

I can not support such assembly on whom there is no check and balance and I can not suggest to make President so strong that he can use such amendments on the basis of personal likes and dislikes. There should be some sort of equality in between. Otherwise Marshal Laws are not very far, rather GHQ is shifting to Islamabad very soon

Haathioon Ki Larai Main Chuintian He Marti Hain… Same is the case with our public. Every time, the tension effects only Poor people of this country. Politicians should learn some thing from Western politics and do some thing good for the nation. Really, people are now helpless. They can’t think beyond 2 Roti and a glass of water. Let others to do work, if he is keen to work for poor.

With our this attitude the new president will, naturally, prefer retaining all the powers that his predecessor enjoyed and once he settles down it would become, rather, hard to achieve this. Please, comment.

Asif Ali Zardari is no doubt very talented and he has proved in past but now it is a final round for him and his party. This PPP has no excuse left to address public problem and national issues. He should use his wisdom to tackle each and every issue on parallel basis. People can’t hear that Government is unable to control prices because they have to stop terrorism first, and such kind of lame excuses.

Jiyay Bhutto, Jiyay Bhutto can survive for only couple of weeks more. Now it is a time for practical implementation of their plans to eradicate poverty, controlling terrorism and bringing harmony in the country at each level.

Asif Ali Zardari is a politician and can give direction to government, if sincerity and dedication is there. He is free from other tensions, as President Musharraf had from last 2 years. So it is the final round for him to do or to drown its party.

I must appreciate every political party, that they are united on one thing at least i.e. Keeping Government and democracy strong. People are really in severe pain due to shortage of every thing in the country. Government should think about it.

God Bless Pakistan and It’s loving people.!