Although after that i convenced that as a company required a manger to manage a comapny and get more benifit from employers for the benifit of society. Similarly Aim is require to manage our life and get the fruitful results from our abilities for the benifit of the soceity.

I feel that its the fault of my capability that i does not think on that side…time passess…i come in professional life. As a engineer i proved my self in many companies and internationally im also acceptable. But still one question unsoved in my brain “What should be my aim of Life”

To search the answer of my question i look into society and observe the pattern that our peoples are going in which way. I get the observation that all the society is like me. We are like a crowd. Our identity is divided in punjabi, sindhi, patha. our concepts are divided into sunni, shai, diobandi. we are internally secholar but externally islamic. we are traping in our lies. I concluded our nation has no Aim. We are full of talent but loss of target.

Then i saw people hapiness on world cup winning. Every body is happy because everybody want that pakistan become champion. …..This moment relize me to search again and where is a happiness is the Aim of nation.

I observe our people behavior again then i have the worst reality of pakistan
- We become united/happy when tension is created by army/govt from india
- We divided we there is construction work (like kalabagh)
- We are filled with joy when we launch missil like Ghauri.

Our aim is going towards voilance to voilance.

- Due to that aim , we accept more miltary dictatorship.
- We are in circle of self destruction. Form dividing of bangladesh…. to Karachi riots…..to Swat talibanization.

This will be very if i will say we have to chnage our aim. This is time to relize the aim of Nation.

But there are very few

Who turn out to be good leaders

And excel in all they do they do.

The way things ought to be

And sets a good example for

Everyone to see.

He teaches us to try our best

And strives to make us better

Yet must insist the rules be met

Right down to the letter.

Fairness and integrity

Must be realized

They play the most important part

And can’t be compromised.

Talent on this level

Can’t be found everywhere

But i know one great leader.

His name is Altaf Hussain

Look at the teams and not the organizations who are working on it. The example of IPL or ICL that you put across is a team play. If you are not able to perform as a team then you are not in a position to organize and host events like that. The whole thing is a team play.

If you look at individual teams who are playing in these two are showing the team play characteristics as all the players are not from the same country they are mixed together and still they play as a team not as a individual.

Try to look at the things with pictures you would like to see and they will come forward and you can spot positives and negatives of it. But if you are looking at things from negative approach then you will not be able to see anything but loopholes and problems only.

wrong attitude indeed !

@13: Ibrahim: There is nothing wrong at all for any kind of personal affiliations with any body or any party. But when some one tries to impose this favourite personality on others without solid reason then it goes wrong. If you are frequent visitor then you will find few long long poems and long long slogans (which they never even wrote for founder of Pakistan even) as comments in such articles that have nothing to discuss politics. Is this a right way to praise their party or leader?

My one lady colleague has gone through severe tension on facebook due to same kind of individual who was assigned to defend his party. That man tried his level best to write maximum slogans on her pages and then become abusive. Reason was only one that she had reservations from that party and their practices. Is this the right way to email directly or to abuse and threat directly because some one is not following one party.

Wrong… totally wrong attitude.

Cheers.

speakfree: I dont see any changes in Indian team, and ICL and IPL are just two examples. Make at least single league to show the team play. Same is the case throughout this region in every field. Just take this forum TPS, where commentors and writers often (not always) remain hell bent on proving other wrongs, e.g. Musharraf lovers and MQM lovers would always abuse others no matter what.

Actually we are anti-logic and anti-reasoning people.

The problem is the people in subcontinent are taught to fight and perform individually and are not taught to work as a team.

Things are changing in India. People are realizing the importance of team play. The example quoted by Maria around Sachin Tendulkar, is from the past if you look at the current Indian team there are changes if you notice them.

Also the other problem that we guys have is the education system in India the education system makes it more difficult to leave. Parents demand 80%, 90% from their kids, so that they will get admission in good colleges. In this years admission news for some good colleges students with 96% were not able to get through. What would you say about that? The pressure that we create on our children at early ages will not make them team player, but will make them individual performers.