As far as I see, Islam never put any clause on loving someone as far as it is for good and for marriage. Please see under mentioned hadith
Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said: “There is nothing better for two who love each other than marriage.” (Sahih Al-Jami`, 5200)

We are living in hippocratic society. We always do what we like at our time but oppress other for the same at other time and agin do the same thing when we wish or need that again. Truth is, our guardians, parents, teacher, and overall society donot have good idea of Islamic teaching. We usually work with partial picture rather having complete. In many cases we also show our inner dirt and hippocracy by hidding the truth even by knowing that thorougly.

Let come to this particular issue. First question is why a girl take decision to leave her parents and to run with someone else. Reasons are as follows

1) Lack of trust in parents 2) Lack of parents guidance 3) Social and family Hippocracy 4) Practise of Differencing between son and daughter 5) Out practice of withholding the rights of others specially women either daughter, sisters, wife, mother and so on 6) Her own foolish attitude

Above mentioned all reasons occur due to one or more then one mistakes of parents. ALLAH has given right to boy and girl to choose their partners and to merry each other then with due respect how parents can bypass someone rights when ALLAH has given that right to that person. This is parents mistake. In marriage, parents or guardian role is just to keep an eye on the person, to evaluate that person with proper logical grounds and then just to advice their child that this is good or bad by giving proper reason. Have session with their child and try to convince him/her rather oppressing her.

Let me also tell you that people have confusion that arrange marriages are better. Truth is that neither arrange nor love marriage is better. It’s only the persons. People usually come with statistics of divorce rates but do you know the sufferings of arrangeable married women. See their lives by your own, rash words from husband and his relatives, occasional or daily beating, and many more insulting attitudes. If theose poor women are bearing this then this doesn’t mean that arrange marriages are better then love marriages.

One thing more; As I said we are hippocrates. Do you know how we work. If some arrangeable married girl is in her husband house and without seeing how she is bearing her married life we usually call this marriage very successful but if the same proposition happen with some love marriage. we usually taunt that girl or relationship unsuccessful just due to love marriage. First we need to rationalize parents attitude. Our holy prophet said

“Be Kind to young ones; Show respect to elders”

This clearly show that first parents need to rationalize therir attitude and realise their mistakes then children will certainly work the same way. In last, These are our parents who usually demand what is not their right. Childeren either son or daughters are just asking or fighting for having their rights.

Regards

Drop the issue in hope that better solution can hoped with sheer common sense do not construe it or accede to it on the basis of ragmarole and nondisjunctive arguments

Around 1,24,000 God’s messengers were sent to people of different ages.

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