Is Love bad or Sinful?
By Samiya Taskeen • Sep 4th, 2009 • Category: Misc, Worth A Second Look • 4 CommentsLove is an abstract feeling which cannot be explained by anyone. Love means to sacrifice, to understand and to give respect. Love is the beautiful thing in the universe which makes our life colorful. Love is an essential part of life whether it is with GOD, parents, teachers or family and friends. To love someone is a natural tendency, infect it’s a relation between two or more persons while mutual understanding, respect and sincerity are the basics of true love.
To love someone is not a bad or sinful act but sometimes the ways of love are wrong. In our modern materialistic society love simply means to give and take. Our young generation believes in sexual love. This sexual attraction once grows very strong apparently disappears. Fake love affairs cause vulgarity in any society. According to my survey in Hajvery university (mohabat krna bura nahe he) there are 70% people in our society who are the victim of sexual love, 20% don’t have time to fall in love. Only 10% make true love. Now-a-day true love rarely exists in our society because of its distorted conception.
Excess of love distort the power of judgments. It’s impossible to love and be wise at the same time. Great and worthy people have not been known to fall in love to the extent of losing mental balance. Men of high spirit keep away from love, to them love is the result of follies. It’s wrong to say that lovers are sufficient into themselves and live happily by gazing upon each other. Men was created to contemplate divine mysteries and sublime objects not to worship the small idol of his love (Francis Bacon)
Love is a passion which is the production of heart; it’s not the heart of life but only the part of life. True love was pure in past; it’s pure in present and will be pure in future. Do love its not a heinous crime but be in your limits.
Mohabat krna bura nahe he lekin
Mohabat k kuch mayar hoa krte hen
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Love is also such a SWEET PAIN?
Hmmm My dear you are very much right. You talked about the servey Which you carried out in your University. My dear I think The 70 % people are almost unaware of love.
They even dont know what love is.
According to them love is a remedy in releiving the pains of their life, and they think they should have it.
But I think when people think only about advantages in love then its not Love. It turns into business and that type of business in which there is always loss.
Love contains both happiness and sorrows. sometimes very small thing becomes very big for you and vice versa. But in the end i would Just say that love in unconditional.
Love cant be bad or sinful but excessive love to anybody that would lead us toward possessiveness or love that becomes our weakness, first turn bad and then lead us toward sinful life.
-If you love your country give her your best with honesty and dedication.
-If you love your parents ,then take care them in their illness and old time without thinking of any return.
-if you love your kids give them best education and moral values and help them to grow like strong character of society and your love would be their real strength to face the harsh realities of real practical life.Pampering them through wrong guidance with our illegal sources of money is not sign of your love but it is slow and sweat poisoning .
-If you love your wife then use to of her of your love and caring attitude instead of showing her that you are just money making machines for fulfilling their materialistic desires
-If you truly love your husband then give him very sincere and valued time.Husband need more attention than a child so manage him like an important child who physically grown up earlier.
-I always asked the women who claimed that they blindly love their husband and cant think of living with out him.But if I ask them that whether they will allow their husband for second marriage if he wants to do they all go out of control.Almost all said that either they will commit suicide or kill her husband another woman.So Pakistani man are very unlucky to have such aggressive wives who cant give them space in the name of loving them.
If you love your brothers and sisters then give them respect and forgive their weakness and try to reach them in trouble time.
So whom you love it should be act like strength and power as love plays the role of multivitamin in human character and moral behaviour.
So you see love has many parameters in our lives and we have to cover all such parameters in our little life.
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