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Decency; the Masculine Insignia of Approach

By Dr RazaHaider • Nov 1st, 2009 • Category: Misc • No Responses

Modesty is a term used more in the contest of defining women as symbol and insignia of her moral measurements thereby; explaining and demarcating her, in to the art of creator as master piece.

Similarly decency is a contextual term; extensively used as synonymous of modesty, to define male measurement in the contest of his moral turnout.

Although the literary meaning of the two terms are almost identical but restricted ethical placement as usage during interaction and conversation, never allow these words to be used in the theme of utilizing the term irrationally as modest for the male or decency for the female, thereby; restricting and demarcating the word in to specific field of utilization and placement, according to the gender.

This rule of thumb is always utilized by almost every individual whenever necessity arises to use such words in usages and literature. Since! Irrelevant placement as behavior or presentation may tag the user or presenter with the suspicion that perhaps, he is unaware of the correct utilization of the term or attitude as approach.

Although; utilization of the term in countercoup situation would not change the theme and meaning of the expression as idea but such deliberate placement, almost never gets this option to traverse defined demarcation sphere as usage.

This dictation of restricted dominancy of each verb in its own domain reflects and circulates the theme that; prohibition, restrictions, curtailment and abstinence are the preliminary rule as law of nature,  that create essence of abidance and obedience, thereby ethically regulating law of nature and role of beings in cases, where presentation becomes part as necessity.

It is this rule that demarcate and regulate social moral, legal and gender dependent requirement in one’s social circle; so to exercise the natural instinct as requirement that has been destined and defined by law or as social requirement, for specific species and beings during interaction.

Under the premises of such regulated theme of essence, substances and traits; a male is always suppose to be an active counter part of female ,which is by nature; a passive.

Male is always suppose to offer, regard and stay a step down position so to regard the marvelous creature as her granted right.

However sometimes these factors as active and passive; override each other and the theme of nature is reverted thus tagging the sufferer as reversal of the original.

Such theme  or unnatural presentation ;are infact acquired theme that are the precursors of individual built in tendency and lust that originates from suffered ungrounded backup or perhaps suppressed environment in any debacle as requirement or groom.

In my opinion; Modesty is a unique factor which resides as crown over the peak of shyness, polite expressions, apprehensive and nervous attitude and humble isolation, over the head of a woman making her the most attractive element to be loved and care.

This living is such a marvelous peace of creation which can not be compared with any thing that is created thus expressing the classical expertise and uniqueness of the creator.

As an outlook of interpreted version as translation; Human as male gender, if can not maintain his calibrated designation as decency, to offer and regard modesty to its real owner, during interaction as social; especially with less dominant specie as female; becomes the reflection of sinful sinister; with no moral and ethical platform of arrival, you may call; standards of behavior.


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