http://www.pkhope.com/broken-homes-spreading-broken-hearts/ A Candid Blog Fri, 10 Feb 2012 15:48:40 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 http://www.pkhope.com/broken-homes-spreading-broken-hearts/comment-page-1/#comment-906602 Nazia Wed, 16 Dec 2009 13:52:30 +0000 http://www.pakspectator.com/?p=19037#comment-906602 There is no alternative option for good life except to adopt strong family life for grooming your kids in good and healthy environment.The greed of materialistic desires and concept of propagation of individuality(comes from west) are badly hurting this family life structure as all parties now go for short term and fiscal benefits.Family life need patience,sacrifices termed as compromises and long term planning but immature parents misguide their emotional juveniles in martial matters or some how try to influence their married life through their old versions. So there are many factors of breaking of home or tear off of relations in one's married life but I am sure if society or family setup gives proper time and separate place to couple and let them to develop their own life patterns which should be free of influence of elders than situation can be different.Each couple fight, and fight on minor to major issues but how it is aggravated by surrounding people that sometime become decision making in breaking the relations. Kids no doubt are the worst victims of circumstances in this war of egotism. Strong family surely produce resilient and confident individuals,But I think instead of surviving as minor in verbal and physical abusive environment it is better to be separated in cordial way and let the child to live under the care of two relations as such.Child should be realized by both partners in positive manners about their personal mistakes instead of mudslinging on each other habits. That would surely assemble the shatter personality of child and positive attitude of separated parents help him or her to grow like normal child. There is no alternative option for good life except to adopt strong family life for grooming your kids in good and healthy environment.The greed of materialistic desires and concept of propagation of individuality(comes from west) are badly hurting this family life structure as all parties now go for short term and fiscal benefits.Family life need patience,sacrifices termed as compromises and long term planning but immature parents misguide their emotional juveniles in martial matters or some how try to influence their married life through their old versions.
So there are many factors of breaking of home or tear off of relations in one’s married life but I am sure if society or family setup gives proper time and separate place to couple and let them to develop their own life patterns which should be free of influence of elders than situation can be different.Each couple fight, and fight on minor to major issues but how it is aggravated by surrounding people that sometime become decision making in breaking the relations.
Kids no doubt are the worst victims of circumstances in this war of egotism. Strong family surely produce resilient and confident individuals,But I think instead of surviving as minor in verbal and physical abusive environment it is better to be separated in cordial way and let the child to live under the care of two relations as such.Child should be realized by both partners in positive manners about their personal mistakes instead of mudslinging on each other habits.
That would surely assemble the shatter personality of child and positive attitude of separated parents help him or her to grow like normal child.

]]> http://www.pkhope.com/broken-homes-spreading-broken-hearts/comment-page-1/#comment-905933 Daanish Wed, 16 Dec 2009 06:45:40 +0000 http://www.pakspectator.com/?p=19037#comment-905933 Cool thoughts, mental health comes with mental peace.the solution is early counselling, support groups, domestic violence prevention , and following the life of our prophet pbuh. Cool thoughts, mental health comes with mental peace.the solution is early counselling, support groups, domestic violence prevention , and following the life of our prophet pbuh.

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